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A Morning View Near the Patio

It is so awesome when others check on their pastor or share words of encouragement. I am so blessed with a congregation who does send cards, text messages, emails, phone calls and even stop in the office just to show their appreciation. Pastor appreciation at Aley Church is not the month of October, is is all the time. But even with the best situation I experience, there can be loneliness. It can be a difficult journey as a pastor. But when the Spirit of God nudges my friends in the congregation, they listen and make a large difference in my life. 

Not all pastors have the same experience. There are many who barely get a card of appreciation during a month set aside for recognition. Many deal with extremely negative comments and situations from people who only care for themselves. All they hear is what is wrong and the only time they are called is when others need something. They are lonely and often wonder if it even worth the effort they share with the people. Many consider walking away from ministry and even some consider if life is worth living. 

I also realize pastors are not perfect. Please remember in their imperfection they have feelings and emotions just like anyone else. Even as you approach them in imperfect moments, approach them in love. 

Please pray, please encourage, please help in ministry and please love your pastors and leaders who often are alone.

“And now, friends, we ask you to honor those leaders who work so hard for you, who have been given the responsibility of urging and guiding you along in your obedience. Overwhelm them with appreciation and love!”  - 1 Thessalonians 5:12-13

Peace,
PB

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